Chapter I — Wealth on marriage

Fenny
2 min readDec 7, 2020

hardwork never betrays, hardwork is the key of success

I always believe that hard work will pay for everything, including your debts. Hardworking people are far more attractive than the bachelorette, even though they have the luxury of leisure. Instead of spending money, people who can oversee their future, planning for the upcoming days are someone who had step beyond the averages. That is why people who have goals will attract more audience and will become a role model for people behind them. A survey conducted in the 20s and 30s, stated women tend to more attracted to career men rather than the luxurious. They responded because men with careers seem to have a brighter future and they know they can rely on financially.

On the other hand, marriage is an issue. Marriage is controversial for people who don’t have a stable income or people who are not ready yet financially. Although, a survey conducted on women in their dating life, they respond differently toward this issue.

“I can’t get married to someone who can’t even afford a house” said a woman in her late 20s. “Dating life is different with marriage, love is not enough to support two people. Marriage is about money.”

An arising issue that can break a relationship instantly. Therefore, nowadays people don’t do formal marriage. Two people living together is considered a married couple, with or without ceremony. For them, it is not necessary to have a marriage if both of them don’t want to jump on the circle. Nothing is different, except you have a formal ceremony, surround with the relatives and spending a big sum when you can save those to buy more worthy kinds of stuff.

Therefore, some people said that the casual relationship is more on a trend right now. I believe this is true. Not to mention that couples have to control finance, it is just too complicated.

On the other hand, I agree with the term people should only be together when they are ready, both relationship and financial. Love can’t conquer everything, yet love can destroy anything. It is crucial for every couple to know their state before jumping into fire.

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